Remembering the Life of Tom Dreesen: Comedian, Friend, and Storyteller

Tom Dreesen, a notable comedian from Harvey, left a lasting impact on the entertainment world. Over his career, he appeared on TV over 500 times, with 61 spots on The Tonight Show. He worked as an opening act for icons like Smokey Robinson, Tony Orlando, Gladys Knight, Liza Minnelli, Sammy Davis Jr., and for 13 years, Frank Sinatra. Dreesen even served as the master of ceremonies at Sinatra’s 1998 wake and was a pallbearer at his funeral.

David Letterman, who considered Dreesen a dear friend, praised his storytelling skills and kindness. Unfortunately, Dreesen’s life came to an end on a Wednesday morning as he passed away in a California hospital after battling cancer at the age of 86.

Early Years

Dreesen was born on September 11, 1939, in a small town as the third child in a family of eight. His parents, Glenore and Walter, both struggled with alcoholism. Their home was an old shack in Harvey, Illinois. Dreesen recalled a difficult childhood with no proper bathroom facilities, overcrowded sleeping arrangements, and frequent encounters with rats.

Despite these hardships, he supported the family by shining shoes, caddying, and taking on various jobs. Dreesen’s escape from this challenging environment came when he joined the Navy, where he traveled the world for four years.

Career and Achievements

In 1958, he married Maryellen Subock and continued to support his growing family by working long hours in construction. A desire to give back led him to create a drug-education program with the Jaycees, which is where he met Tim Reid. Together, they started forming a comedy routine which became known as Tim & Tom, the first interracial comedy duo. Their act gained momentum and they performed at various Chicago nightclubs. However, the duo parted ways when Reid moved to Los Angeles in 1974.

Dreesen followed Reid to Los Angeles, enduring financial difficulties, and living out of an abandoned car. His perseverance paid off when he finally secured a chance to perform at the Comedy Store, leading to friendships with future stars like David Letterman, Jay Leno, and Robin Williams.

His big break came on The Tonight Show, leading to further opportunities including performing as an opening act alongside renowned artists like Frank Sinatra. Dreesen cherished moments with Sinatra, participating in several adventures and discussions on life and family.

Legacy and Final Years

After Sinatra’s death, Dreesen continued to tour with his autobiographical show. Outside of performing, he was an avid golfer and immensely involved in charity. He was recognized for his charitable work, contributing significantly without a fee.

Dreesen lived on Benefit Street in Sherman Oaks, California, even as age and health challenges such as COVID-19 affected him in recent years. Despite these challenges, he remained optimistic and frequently visited his hometown Chicago.

Cubs Chairman Tom Ricketts, as well as actor Gary Sinise & comedian friends, acknowledged Dreesen’s indelible mark on comedy and his unwavering attachment to his roots.

Dreesen carried a poignant family secret his whole life; he had discovered at 12 that his biological father was not who he thought. This revelation led to meaningful last conversations with his real father, Frank Polizzi, highlighting Dreesen’s true kindness and understanding.

Plans for a memorial service are underway, honoring a man who touched the lives of many with laughter and generosity.