The discussion about beauty frequently takes an unpleasant turn, especially with public figures. In our interconnected world, opinions and judgments are ever-present. Recently, attention centered on Ariana Grande’s latest music video and her new album “Petal,” sparking renewed commentary on her slender appearance.
This scenario raises an important question: Even if we can comment on anything, should we? Some see these remarks as body shaming, a common issue directed at women. Others argue it’s a matter of concern. Some urge for respect towards her privacy, while others believe celebrities’ influence on young fans makes these discussions necessary.
Throughout her career, Grande, now 33, has faced scrutiny regarding her appearance. The focus is now on the visibility of her bone structure, including her sternum and rib cage. Grande argues against this discourse, emphasizing she is healthy and opposes commenting on people’s bodies.
Her representative informed People magazine that she plans to retreat from public life post-tour due to persistent scrutiny.
Ariana Grande addresses these pressures in her music video, highlighting the relentless assessment associated with fame. She sings, “I don’t need someone to save me…I’m not a victim.”
The Impact of Body Image Discussions
Johanna Kandel, from the National Alliance for Eating Disorders, points out the broader impact of body image discussions. “Consider our intentions,” she advises. “What’s the purpose of this conversation…the intent versus the impact?”
Judging women, especially famous ones, based on appearances is not new. Despite efforts for body acceptance, cultural conversations remain focused on thinness, beauty, and health. Effective weight-loss drugs, popularized by celebrities, influence these perceptions, worrying those dealing with body image issues or eating disorders.
Allison Butler, lecturer at the University of Massachusetts, Amherst, notes that judgment limits not only the complexity of those in the spotlight but also our understanding of ourselves. Many experts argue that passing judgment on someone’s body is inappropriate, regardless of their celebrity status.
Rachel Goldman, psychologist at NYU, suggests resisting speculation. Public talk about celebrity bodies often sends messages to young people that bodies are open for discussion.
Comments about appearances, whether compliments or critiques, can imply our value is tied to how we look. While it’s important to acknowledge that many struggle with eating disorders, Kandel urges addressing these issues thoughtfully and with compassion rather than criticism.
Guidance for Parents and Children
For parents, conversations with children should focus on societal messages rather than judging bodies. Rachel Goldman stresses that appearance doesn’t indicate health. “Young people should understand their body is just one aspect of who they are,” she says.
Jennifer Hill, a pediatric nurse, shares this approach with her 16-year-old daughter. Hill emphasizes acceptance of diversity in bodies and maintains open communication, encouraging her daughter to express herself.
Grande recently acknowledged fans’ concerns during a concert, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and taking breaks. She assured fans this experience would enhance her professional life.
For support with body image or eating concerns, contact the National Alliance for Eating Disorders helpline at (866) 662-1235, available Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. EST.

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