Three out of four Americans aged 50 and older express a desire to stay in their homes as they age, according to AARP. This independence hinges on daily habits.
Dr. Vonda Wright, a double board-certified orthopedic surgeon based in Orlando, Florida, identifies three primary challenges for older adults aiming to age in place:
- Difficulty in rising from chairs and self-care
- Memory issues
- Managing personal hygiene due to incontinence
Importance of Skeleton Health
Wright emphasizes the role of skeletal longevity in maintaining mental and physical health. She notes that staying independent requires attention to the entire musculoskeletal system, which includes muscles, bones, and tendons.
“The missing piece in most conversations between mental health, physical health and independence is your skeletal longevity,” Wright said.
Essential Habits for Independence
1. Keep Moving
The human body thrives on mobility, as moving is our first learned skill. Dr. Wright stresses the significance of staying active to maintain the ability to perform daily tasks independently. The CDC recommends low-impact activities like walking, cycling, and water exercise.
“Even when your hips hurt, even when your knees hurt, you should move on the ground, or get in a pool in chest-high water,” Wright suggested.
Wright discourages rest for addressing pain. Instead, she advocates building muscle around joints to alleviate issues.
2. Build Muscle
Strengthening exercises support tasks essential for independent living, such as rising from a chair or carrying groceries. Wright insists it’s never too late to build muscle.
Research shows that even those at 90 can increase muscle strength significantly through high-intensity resistance training. Wright encourages starting gradually and seeking professional guidance as necessary.
3. Eat Enough to Support Strength
Aging adults may eat less, risking their energy and muscle-building efforts. Wright warns against insufficient intake and underscores a protein-rich diet.
“We cannot fuel the muscle we want to build [and] the energy we need without a protein-forward, adequate-calorie diet,” she said.
The National Institute on Aging recommends consuming protein-rich foods like seafood, dairy, and legumes, despite potentially reduced caloric needs.
4. Challenge Decline Assumptions
Wright encourages older adults to defy notions that aging signifies inevitable decline. She advises against resigning oneself to inactivity based solely on age.
“The most common mistake I see seniors making as they age is assuming that aging is an inevitable decline from vitality to frailty,” she said.
5. Open Conversations
Wright urges starting independence planning during busy working years. She recommends discussing assistance needs with aging parents.
“What do you want help with? How can I help you? How could we get help for you if possible?” Wright suggests.
Dr. Wright exemplifies this with her own parents, arranging meal support when she travels to help them maintain their independence.

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