Father’s Day Reflections: Lessons From My Dad

This Father’s Day is a new experience for me, being the first without my father, Leo E. Perino. He passed away in late May 2026, shortly after retiring at 79. My dad was dedicated to his work and cherished his daughters. As a supportive father to two girls, he set an example that continues to inspire me.

Observing my friends who are now fathers to daughters, I admire their parenting skills. While they excel in raising their children, I wish to share five impactful lessons instilled by my dad that have contributed to my success and happiness.

1. Emphasizing Equality Early On

Growing up in the 1970s, my sister Angie and I were amid the rising “girl power” movement. My father didn’t focus on making speeches about equality; he demonstrated it through actions. He assured us that gender should not limit our aspirations, encouraging us to aim high. This belief was part of our upbringing, reinforced by a vibrant yellow T-shirt I often wore stating, “Anything boys can do, girls can do better.” His words encouraged us to believe in ourselves.

2. Prioritizing Education and Reading

I developed an interest in reading early on and loved books. In third grade, my father initiated a tradition. He encouraged me to read The Rocky Mountain News and The Denver Post, picking two articles to discuss upon his return from work. This routine developed a habit of engaging with the news and, importantly, nurturing critical thinking.

3. Encourage Thoughtful Expression

My father valued communication skills, urging me to articulate my thoughts confidently and intelligently. Our discussions about news and politics helped me gain comfort in vocalizing my views. Practicing this with him prepared me for addressing future leaders and television audiences.

4. Faith and Moral Values

Faith played a vital role in our upbringing. We often debated about church service times on Saturdays. My dad and mom fostered values and belief in a higher power, providing stability during tough times and enhancing our happiness.

5. Support Without Judgment

After graduate school, I faced a career dilemma and worried about disappointing my dad. However, when I consulted him, he was supportive, encouraging me to explore new paths. He offered guidance, not criticism, providing immense relief. My sister shared a similar experience, finding solace in his non-judgmental support during major life choices.

In essence, a father like ours continuously offers a safe haven amid life’s challenges. It’s clear that a father’s role extends beyond protection; it’s about creating a comforting refuge.

While my father didn’t finish reading his favorite book, I find solace in the fulfilling journey he shared with us. His passing left a mark, but his legacy continues to guide us.

To fathers of daughters everywhere, your influence is profound and greatly appreciated.

Dana Perino co-anchors FOX News Channel’s morning news show America’s Newsroom and co-hosts The Five. She also hosts the podcast Perino on Politics and has been with Fox News since 2009.