Adopting Elderly Pets: A Heartfelt Journey

In the summer of 2020, a new chapter began when Cosmo and Hook joined our lives. My wife, Delilah, discovered them on the website of Frosted Faces Foundation, a nonprofit focused on rescuing senior dogs in Ramona, Northern San Diego County.

Delilah immediately felt drawn to the Yorkie and Chihuahua, but I hesitated. I saw the potential heartache of adopting older pets as a burden. Both dogs, ten years old at the time, had health issues when Frosted Faces took them in from shelters in Riverside and San Diego counties. Cosmo had lost an eye and Hook had a clubfoot, both in need of dental surgery. Delilah argued they needed us to provide love in their short, remaining time. I eventually agreed.

When we first met them, Cosmo took to us quickly, while Hook showed aggression toward him. Despite this, we brought them home that day. As weeks passed, challenges arose. Cosmo suffered from allergies, constantly scratching until raw. Hook showed a preference for eating cat poop over regular food.

Despite the difficulties, Delilah fell in love, and over time, so did I. This unusual pair, like a canine “Odd Couple,” became part of our family. Cosmo revealed a sweet nature while Hook, though grumpy, showed a bond with Delilah.

Every day, we worked to make their time with us comfortable. I learned to cook their meals, adapting to their dietary needs. Delilah ensured Hook didn’t feel left out during walks, carrying him in a baby carrier.

Old age presented new challenges. More health issues developed, requiring frequent trips to Frosted Faces for veterinary care. The nonprofit, small but dedicated, was run by Andy and Kelly Smíšek, who converted a home into a sanctuary for senior dogs. Here, volunteers and a clinic on-site supported their cause.

Adopting elderly pets inspired gratitude not only from the pets but also from us. We saw other families share similar experiences. Adopters often expressed how these senior dogs brought unique joy and warmth to their lives, despite the added responsibilities.

However, adopting a senior pet means accepting eventual farewells. Hook passed away at 14, impacting Cosmo deeply. With Cosmo’s decline in health, we faced more issues, including dementia.

Late nights turned into times of reflection. Though we vowed never to adopt senior pets again, I realized the profound lesson Cosmo and Hook imparted: teaching us empathy and love for those often overlooked.

In June, we bid farewell to Cosmo. On his last walk, I whispered comforting words. We put him down peacefully, cherishing the memories.

Our home is quieter now. While Delilah intends to adopt more senior dogs, we need time to heal. Adopting such pets requires resources and emotional strength, not for everyone, but tremendously rewarding. It opens one’s heart to care beyond measure, teaching acceptance.

Cosmo and Hook, thank you for your time with us. Though brief, the lessons and happiness shared endure. Farewell beloved companions.