Navigating Friendships with Financial Generosity

Dear Eric,

My husband and I have recently received inheritances from our parents. Thanks to our hard work and prudent living, we are financially secure in retirement. The inheritance is a generous gift that we do not require for our daily needs.

I am considering using this newfound wealth to enhance not only my life but also the lives of my friends. This might include situations like paying for meals or covering the cost of vacation rentals.

These gestures are meant to bring joy and create shared experiences. However, I am concerned about avoiding any awkwardness that may arise from these acts of generosity. How can we share our good fortune with friends without making them uncomfortable?